FAQ

Questions.

Saying it

Won't I sound rude?: It will feel uncomfortable at first, but being direct isn't the same as being rude. Each scenario also gives you three options of increasing directness to ease into things.
What if they get angry?: Most people take it better than you expect. In several experiments, people who turned down an invitation overestimated how upset the other person would be.
Is this therapy?: No. It's practice. Therapy helps you understand why you do things. This helps you stop doing them by giving you the vocab and muscle memory necessary to form new habits.
Do I have to say things out loud?: Yes! Reading alone won't break the habit. Your mouth has to develop the muscle memory too.
Do I have to practice consistently?: Yes. Habits change through repetition. That’s why the app gives you a few minutes of practice every day and a reminder to do it.

Can I cancel?: Yes. Cancel anytime in your App Store settings. If you cancel during the 7-day trial, you won’t be charged.
What is the difference between the app and the cards?: The app has the same content, just more of it, along with notifications to keep you consistent and some other features.

Should I buy the app or the cards?: Buy the cards if you read books in paperback instead of on a Kindle and want to practice without distraction.
Where do you ship?: The US only, for now. Shipping is free and takes about 10 business days.
Can I send them as a gift?: Yep! Put their address in at checkout and the box ships straight to them.

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